Sixty-three million Americans are caregivers right now. Nearly one in three is in the sandwich generation, caught between caring for aging parents and raising children of their own. The average lifetime income loss for a woman who steps back to provide care is close to $300,000. And almost none of them had the conversation before the crisis arrived. Candace Dellacona joins Jonathan Fields to change that.
Key takeaways:
- The Four Real Shifts of Caregiving: Beyond the logistics of doctor appointments and medications, caregiving triggers four deeper shifts: identity, ownership, grief, and loneliness, and most families never talk about any of them.
- The Grief Inside the Role: Caregivers grieve not just for who their parent used to be, but for the version of themselves they expected to be and the life they planned that has not yet arrived. Naming that grief is part of surviving it.
- The Beautiful Side No One Mentions: Caregiving can also bring reconciliation, unexpected closeness, and a profound sense of meaning in ushering someone you love through the hardest chapter of their life.
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