Self-acceptance isn’t always about learning to love every part of ourselves. In this episode, Forrest Hanson and Dr. Rick Hanson explore a more practical approach to accepting difficult traits, behaviors, and identities without giving up on personal growth.
They discuss a four-step process for self-acceptance, the importance of setting boundaries with different parts of ourselves, and how to work with the personas we’ve developed to navigate life.
Key Takeaways:
- Acceptance vs. complacency: Why accepting yourself doesn’t have to mean giving up on change.
- Beyond self-love: Why telling yourself to “just love yourself more” may not be enough.
- Setting inner boundaries: How to acknowledge difficult parts of yourself while establishing limits.
- Self-authorship: Explore how to take a more active role in shaping the person you’re becoming.
Being Well Podcast offers science-based practices and curated insights for better mental health. New episodes usually air Mondays.



