Host

Paula Felps

Guest

Dr. Frank Spinelli, physician, health coach, and author of The Shame Compass

Shame can shape how we see ourselves, influence our relationships, and affect our sense of self-worth.

Drawing on his experiences with childhood trauma, Dr. Frank Spinelli explains how developing “shame literacy”—the ability to recognize and understand shame—can help us approach this difficult emotion as a source of insight rather than an enemy.

He also introduces the COMPASS framework from his book, offering an approach to confronting, understanding, and integrating shame.

Key takeaways:

  • Shame vs. guilt: Understand why shame is connected to our identity rather than simply our actions.
  • Shame literacy: Explore how recognizing and understanding shame can support healing.
  • The COMPASS framework: Discover an approach to confronting, mapping, and integrating shame.
  • The power of sharing: Learn why telling our stories can help us work through shame and reconnect with ourselves.

The Live Happy Now podcast shares tips and ideas for living a happier and more meaningful life through conversations with positive psychology and well-being thought leaders. New episodes usually air every Tuesday.

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