Why You Can’t Stop Overthinking (and What to Do about It)

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Host

Forrest Hanson

Guest

Dr. Rick Hanson, psychologist and New York Times best-selling author

Knowing you overthink rarely makes you stop. In this episode, Dr. Rick and Forrest dig into why rumination becomes a stubborn self-reinforcing habit, why insight alone is not enough to break it, and what actually works.

Key Takeaways:

  • Rumination vs. Reflection: While reflection is a productive tool for growth, rumination is a repetitive habit that often stems from feelings of disappointment or failure.
  • The Insight Gap: Knowing that we are overthinking rarely stops the process, as the habit is often deeply reinforced by the brain’s motivational systems.
  • Concrete Problem-Solving: Moving from abstract worries to specific, actionable steps helps interrupt the cycle of rumination and builds a sense of resourcefulness.
  • Acceptance and Agency: Balancing the acceptance of one’s current state with the resilience to take small actions can shift the mind from radical helplessness to active engagement.

Being Well Podcast offers science-based practices and curated insights for better mental health. New episodes usually air every Monday.

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