What does it actually mean to be emotionally intelligent, and how do you build that capacity in real life?
Dr. Marc Brackett joins Dr. Andrew Huberman to break down the science of emotion regulation and offer concrete strategies that can be applied in relationships, at work, and in daily interactions.
Key takeaways:
- Emotional Intelligence Is a Skill: Rather than a fixed trait, emotional intelligence can be developed through specific, learnable practices that improve how we recognize, understand, and work with our emotions.
- Individual and Relational Tools: Dr. Brackett distinguishes between practices you can build on your own and those that come to life in the context of relationships, showing how both reinforce each other over time.
- Childhood Shapes Emotional Wiring: Early experiences leave a lasting imprint on how we relate to emotions, and understanding that history is a key step toward changing it.
- The Male Emotional Experience: The conversation gives particular attention to how boys and men are socialized around emotional expression, and what that means for their emotional development and relationships later in life.



